tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6356774295771707830.post908041149074469792..comments2023-05-27T08:46:02.401-05:00Comments on Holy Pee Stick, Batman!!: my new routineUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6356774295771707830.post-44481199762158807942010-12-30T22:21:00.967-06:002010-12-30T22:21:00.967-06:00Thank you for sharing that poem, it is powerful an...Thank you for sharing that poem, it is powerful and so very true! <3 you so muchrebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06480554666969330506noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6356774295771707830.post-88613081944525705242010-12-30T19:15:02.964-06:002010-12-30T19:15:02.964-06:00I hope that the rest of the day went a little bett...I hope that the rest of the day went a little better. If it did not, I hope tomorrow does. That's all one can hope for, and it's not much, but it is something. For as long as we live we can always hope that the next moment will be better. Love the poem.MrsHhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18277631338883839373noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6356774295771707830.post-59218431677851604352010-12-30T14:40:33.157-06:002010-12-30T14:40:33.157-06:00Tiffany -
I think of you often and read your blo...Tiffany - <br /><br />I think of you often and read your blog most every time that you post. I wanted to let you know that, even if it is of little comfort or meaning, prayers are going up for you and always do, every time I think to do so. I hope that you have happiness or at least contentment back in your life soon - to make those shoes as easy to bear as can be possible.Kathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02545614954265185598noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6356774295771707830.post-58927886602619036072010-12-30T14:19:00.340-06:002010-12-30T14:19:00.340-06:00I can identify so much with this post. You are ri...I can identify so much with this post. You are right, nothing about losing your child is right. I hate it. Every single bit of it. This is our reality now and I don't know if I will ever be able to fully accept it. This is certainly not how life was supposed to be for any of us :( ((hugs))Rhiannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11722893069322386523noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6356774295771707830.post-52587237200748542032010-12-30T12:08:17.442-06:002010-12-30T12:08:17.442-06:00it is so hard, I still have thoughts of 'I sho...it is so hard, I still have thoughts of 'I should be, or she should be here doing this or that'..and there is nothing right about losing our babies..feel what you need to feel, no matter what.. <br />I wish you could have your baby back too..Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07386710835021940223noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6356774295771707830.post-81376641262535448562010-12-30T11:09:41.230-06:002010-12-30T11:09:41.230-06:00I feel the EXACT same way. This is not the way our...I feel the EXACT same way. This is not the way our lives are supposed to be now at all. We are supposed to be loving up our babies and living our chaotic, yet amazing lives as mothers. I pray for joy for us again someday soon :)noah's mommy + daddyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17274770103841593183noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6356774295771707830.post-60186619471812098462010-12-30T10:51:20.585-06:002010-12-30T10:51:20.585-06:00I'm so angry that this is your new new normal....I'm so angry that this is your new new normal. I wish more than anything...I would give ANYTHING...for you to have to Julius back. :(Deanna Whiteheadnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6356774295771707830.post-73014019487321583382010-12-30T10:11:03.409-06:002010-12-30T10:11:03.409-06:00Tiffany, this "new normal" is always so ...Tiffany, this "new normal" is always so difficult. This isn't what we asked for. This isn't what we wanted, and this is certainly not where we had planned to be. Remember, though, you are never NOT a mother anymore. Parenting a heavenly angel while you're still on Earth is very challenging, but you are still a mommy. You will ALWAYS be a mommy. All we can do is try to put one foot in front of the other and make it one step at a time. I can't promise that it gets easier, that the pain lessens. I can only promise that one day, you will find ways to deal with it easier. Some days even now, 14 1/2 months after saying goodbye to the most beautiful baby girl I have ever seen, it sometimes hits me like a ton of bricks. I can be fine one minute, and one silly little trigger can throw me into a fit of despair, agony, and pain. I can normally hold it in to get through the day, and only cry at night when everyone is asleep, but I still cry. <br /><br />You just allow yourself to heal however you need to heal. Feel what you feel, and don't be ashamed of it. If you need to cry, cry. If youwant to scream, scream. Do NOT let anyone make you feel wrong or guilty for feeling how you need to feel. <br /><br />I am thinking of you and am here for you if you ever need to talk. (HUGS)~Amber~Leigh~https://www.blogger.com/profile/00805429895316920969noreply@blogger.com