Tuesday, October 12, 2010

Devastated...

Today my husband and I have suffered an unimaginable loss. After only 4.5 very short months with us our perfect little boy passed away. We are completely at a loss and not sure how to pick up the pieces and carry on. But I ask all of you to please keep us in your thoughts and prayers. I feel so broken...

52 comments:

Esperanza said...

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. Words cannot express my sorrow for you. I know nothing I can say can bring you any comfort but please know you're in my heart and in my thoughts.

DeAnn said...

I'm at a loss for words. I am so very sorry. Praying continuously for you and D tonight.

Alesha said...

You and Dennis are in my prayers. I cannot imagine how you are feeling right now. I am heartbroken, crying, and can't sleep for thinking of you all. And I know this is not even close to what you must be feeling. I am so sorry... If there was a way to undo this, I'd do it in a heartbeat. You have all my love and prayers...

Sue said...

I am so sorry to hear about your loss, I have found you via Rebecca at Road Less Travelled. You and your family are definitely in my thoughts and prayers. ((hugs))

Sinful Sundays said...

Tiffany, my heart goes out to you and Dennis. It's a horrible loss, and I hope you take comfort in the fact that you and your husband gave him a beautiful life. I loved looking at Baby J's pictures and there's no denying that you made him one of the happiest babies, ever!

You and your family are in my prayers. ((HUGS))

cgd said...

Here from Rebecca's blog. I am so very sorry for your loss. There are no words for this. My heart breaks for you and your family. Keeping you in my thoughts and sending love your way.

myinfertilitywoes said...

I'm here thanks to Rebecca and sending you tons of love, prayers, support & (((hugs)))

Curls O Fred said...

I'm also a friend of Rebecca at Road Less Travelled. What a sorrowful time for you. I'm so sorry for your loss. To echo the above comment, his happy pictures show that he must have felt so safe and so loved by you. My thoughts are with you and your family (((hugs)))

JenJen said...

I came over from Rebecca's blog but I wanted to offer you my condolence's on the passing of your beautiful baby boy, Julius. I only have a glimpse of the pain that you are feeling right now but I pray that the Lord wraps you in his loving arms at this time ((HUGS))

You and your family will be in my prayers...

Rhiannon said...

I am so, so sorry for your loss. I found you via Rebecca's blog. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Baby Julius was a beautiful baby boy. Again, I am so sorry.

Amelia said...

Tiffany, I am so sorry to hear about this horrible loss. J was such a precious gift from God who will always be loved by anyone lucky enough to have known him. Please know that you and your family are in my prayers.

Rachel said...

No....Tiffany....no! I'm sooo very sorry. I have no words...just know my heart aches for you!!! Please, please let me know if there is anything at all I can do.

Stephanie said...

I am so sorry for your loss. I can honestly tell you I know what your going through. I lost my son after almost 4 short hrs after birth about a yr ago. Please know that you and your husband will get through this, you will smile again. If you ever need anyone to speak with, scream to or just someone who knows what your going through feel free to reach out to me. myveryownangel@gmail.com

I am so sorry for your loss

Stephanie

Erin G said...

Tiffany,
I am so sorry for your loss! I can not believe what has happened. Please know that I am praying for you and Dennis as well as the rest of the family. I am just at a loss for words! Please let me know if there is anything at all I can do. I am so sorry Tiffany! ((HUGS))

BrownieGirl said...

Tiffany, I know you need to be surrounded by your nearest and dearest right now, but please call me if there is ANYthing I can do to help. I'm so sad for you and Dennis and I know this is a horrible road you don't want to walk. God is going to hold you in His hands, all you have to do is keep trying to put one foot in front of the other and hold on tight to Dennis. I'm so sorry, sweet mama.

Deanna said...

So sorry for your loss. I'm praying for you and your husband.

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry for your loss. I heard about your story through a friend from thebump. May you find peace and comfort during this unimaginably difficult time.

S said...

I don't know you so I hope you don't mind me posting, I stubbled across your blog as I am trying to find my own way through this. I lost my son when he was less than a week old just 6 months ago. Someone along the way who had experienced the loss of a child told me, the pain gets bearable. I'v clung to that thought and have found it to help me get through the worst days. I know may not seem possible but I do have days that are bearable, even enjoyable. I'm so sad for you, this is so unfair. Your son was so beautiful and happy, he experienced so much love. I'll be thinking of you and your family for a long time.

Glass Case of Emotion said...

I was referred here through Rebecca's blog, and I wanted to say that you are in my thoughts and prayers...

Adele said...

I'm here via Rebecca's blog. I'm so very, very sorry, Tiffany, though "sorry" really isn't adequate to cover it. You and your beautiful J are in my thoughts.

Anonymous said...

I am a friend of Jeanette Hanna. My condolences go out to you, your husband, and your family. My wife and I experienced more than one heartbreaking and gutwrenching miscarriage. It is only with the love of God, your family, and friends that will help you both deal with this devastating loss. The only consolation I can offer you is that our children are togeher in the presence of our Risen Lord. Peace be with you.

Drew's Parents said...

I am also a friend of Rebecca's. My heart broke when I read what happened to your little boy. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. <3 Sweet Julius <3

Seana said...

I can't even begin to say how so incredibly sorry I am for your loss....Sending some major prayers your way for peace and healing through this hard time....May God bless your broken heart...I know you don't know me, and I don't know you but I am heart broken for you... No one should have to go through what you are enduring. (((Hugs))

RELH said...

I am so deeply sorry.

Ashley said...

So sorry to hear about this unimaginable loss. I'll be praying for your family.

Rebecca Vucinaj said...

Dear Tiffany and Dennis,
My heart withers sharing your pain. Please know everyone at St. John's is praying for you during what can only be unimaginable. May you be comforted by Our Lord's perpetual light shining on your son (J's) perfect little soul.
Please accept my family's deepest sympathy.
Your sister in Christ,
Rebecca Vucinaj

Candi said...

Tiffany I am so sorry. My heart breaks for you. I am at a loss for words. You, your husband and family are in my prayers. J was such a beautiful little man and although we don't know why he was taken at such a young age, he is now an angel baby and will always be with you, watching over you. May you find peace in this time of grief and know that he was a very loved little boy. If you need anything don't hesitate to ask. Big Hugs.

Lesley (and Eric) said...

I am here from Rebecca's blog, and I just wanted to say how utterly sorry i am for your loss. I am thinking of you and wishing you strength during this unfathomable tragedy.

Rebecca Vucinaj said...

Dear Tiffany and Dennis,
My heart withers sharing your pain and sorrow. Please know everyone at St. John's is praying for you during what is unimaginable and most incomprehensible. May you be comforted by Our Lord's perpetual light shining upon your precious son J's perfect little soul. Please accept mine and my family's deepest sympathy.
Your sister in Christ,
Rebecca

Michele said...

here from Rebecca... prayers and loving thoughts...

Fran said...

Tiffany, I am so heartbroken for you and Dennis. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Much love,
Fran (AL board)

micki @ ADD housewife said...

Sweetie, you have been in my prayers! I wish I had words to comfort you.

Victoria said...

I am so so so sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine your pain. You're in my thoughts *hugs*

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry for your loss. I will be thinking about and praying for your family. GOD BLESS

mistybell said...

I am so, so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. --Misty/MissMiss from the Alabama board on TheBump

Anonymous said...

I have you all in my thoughts and prayers. You have a strong network of people surrounding you with light and love right now, even those you've never met.

Lisa said...

My heart breaks for you and your family. I am lifting you up in prayer.

Anonymous said...

I'm so sorry, sweetheart. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. My heart breaks for you. Praying for comfort and strength in this time of unimaginable loss.

Ashley

Hope said...

You may not know me, but I am a poster on TheBump. I cannot tell you how much my heart aches for you. But please know that we are always here, when you need a shoulder to lean on. I pray that you and your husband find some comfort in the support of your family and friends. And please know that the support for you extends beyond that. The memory of your precious angel, will always stay in my mind. That wonderful smile, that melts your heart, will be my lasting memory of him. He knows he was loved more than words can say, and it shows. And I pray that it is that love, that will carry you through this time. Again, please know that we are all supporting you in spirit, and praying for you.
~Hope~

Katie G. said...

Tiffany,
There aren't enough words to express my deepest sympanthy with what you are going through. God will guide you, love you, hold you, protect you - as he is doing with sweet baby J. He was a beautiful blessing and I know your hearts will always be touched and filled with the time you had with him.
Trust in God and know that he will take care of you during your time of sorrow.
I love ya, and am praying for you, thinking of y'all constantly.
We are here for you if you need anything.
Much love always.

Anonymous said...

So, so sorry for your loss. Please feel free to join us on miss. We are a group of parents, also traveling this devastating nightmare and know the pain you are experiencing first hand.

http://www.missfoundation.org/

Holly said...

I am so very sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

Rachel @ The House of Burks said...

Oh my Lord. I'm so sorry. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

Anonymous said...

Here from the Bump. What a beautiful little boy. . . heartbroken for your loss.

Never forgetting Gregory said...

I am so terribly sorry for your loss. It is just not fair. You have an absolutely beautiful son, and my heart is broken for you.

Anonymous said...

I am so very sad that you are going through what must be an unimaginably difficult time. I heard about your loss on thebump and just wanted to stop by to say that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Pam said...

Tiffany, I am continuously uttering prayers on your behalf. I had my prayer group lift you in prayer as well. I pray God will grant you and Dennis the peace and comfort that you need to grieve the loss of Juju. Time does not heal all wounds because there will always be a scar. Know that Uncle D and I are here for you both. We love you and our hearts ache for you.

In God's Love,
Aunt Pam

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry for your loss. My heart breaks for you. I am from the bump.

loyo03 said...

My thoughts and prayers are with you all! I can not imagine the pain that you are going through, but know that you have an AMAZING support group here whenever you need us. J was absolutely precious and he will be well taken care of.

Anonymous said...

My name is Laura and I learned about you from the bump. I cannot tell you how sorry I am to learn about your unimaginable loss. You are in my prayers.

Mooredance said...

Tiffany-
My heart is breaking for you and Dennis. I will continue to pray for you. God Bless You.
Ashley (mrssamuels2b)

Amy D said...

I am so sorry. I found your blog through my friend, Jenny's blog. It breaks my heart every time I know that someone else has had to endure this pain. Your family is beautiful and I hate that a piece of it is missing. :-(

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