Monday, November 8, 2010

"How's the baby?"

God, i never thought i would depise and dread that question as much as i now do...
:'(

7 comments:

Tiffany said...

sigh... my heart just breaks for all the new members of this horrible club. HUGS!

cainml said...

hugs

Rachel said...

Oh, no. I never even thought about you having to deal with that. I'm so sorry. I wish I had words to comfort you. Just know that I'm thinking of you!!

Megan said...

So sorry to hear about your loss. I lost my Savannah August 31st of this year. I am still fresh with the same things you are having to go through. The one month mark... the questions and comments... My heart aches for you sweety.
All my prayers,
Megan@ A story unfolding

Jennifer said...

Tiffany, you don;t know me, but I too am heartbroken over your loss. I hope you somehow find peace in the middle of all this. A friend of mine, Lindsay, had a son who died of SIDS when he was 4 months old. Her blog might be helpful for you...www.thejonesfamily52009.blogspot.com. You will be in my prayers...,
Jennifer

Brooke said...

Saturday, November 13th is my two month mark...since i last held my sweet little boy. I have heard this question about 5 times...maybe more...but it doesn't get any easier to stumble over the answer. Sometimes I just say "good" and walk away. So,so,so,so HARD.

MrsH said...

I just answer "he died" and leave it at that. Nobody so far has asked me for details. They just say I'm sorry. Some don't say anything. Hard to know what is the best answer to that question.

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